I’m pansexual and non-binary. if you were wondering. which you probably weren’t.

  • SkyezOpen@lemmy.world
    28·
    3 days ago

    we can’t control who we love

    yes we can

    The biggest self report. It means they are gay/bi and choosing to repress it. They think everyone feels that way.

    • stiffyGlitch@lemmy.worldOP
      4·
      3 days ago

      I dunno, she has a boyfriend… Also she’s Catholic and was taught by everybody she was around that being gay is wrong and always had supervision while playing with girls up until she was 17 but maybe

      • VindictiveJudge@lemmy.worldEnglish
        7·
        3 days ago

        always had supervision while playing with girls

        That absolutely sounds like she expressed attraction toward another girl when she was little and someone decided they needed to keep an eye on her.

  • muusemuuse@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    11·
    3 days ago

    Your religion sets rules for you. I don’t practice your religion. You don’t get to inflict your beliefs on me. Fuck off.

      • ContriteErudite@lemmy.world
        2·
        2 days ago

        I think it was directed at the second party. But also shouted at the boundless void in the hope that someone, something, anything with the power to make things make sense hears us. Just like most of my posts.

        • stiffyGlitch@lemmy.worldOP
          1·
          2 days ago

          i feel that way sometimes. one time i was tracking a little group of 5 deer (2 female, one male, and two 5-month-old fawns), and i had lost them. i said “shit.” and somebody said “what’s wrong?” to which i replied “i lost the deer i was tracking.” “hmmm.” said the voice sympathetically. “yes, that will happen sometimes. no matter.” i then realized that somebody was talking to me when i shouldn’t be talking to people nobody knew about my secret place in the woods. “wait.” i said turning around. it was a bird. “yes?” the bird cocked his head. it was a cardinal. my patron bird. “is something the matter?” “yes,” i said, “you’re a talking bird.” the bird twitched his feathers. “is that a problem?” i shook my head. “no, i just was surprised. ive never seen a talking bird before.” “well, now you have. but im here for a very special reason.” “what reason is that?” “Extremely special. but, before i tell you, I must tell you my name.” “my name is Red.” dun dun dunnnnnnnnn its actually a story I’m writing so tune in for more soon

  • Rooty@lemmy.world
    6·
    3 days ago

    Now imagine being bombarded by this nonsense for 12 years during your formative years, because I don’t have to imagine.

    • QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works
      4·
      3 days ago

      my dad believed it for 50 sum years. He was told to get married and have kids, my mom knew he was gay when they got married. When she outed him last year we ALL knew (well, thought he was bi anyways).

      Now he’s fully out, my mom hasn’t talked to me in about 10 months, and I have boobs now.

      Honestly, realizing how painfully masculine the average straight man is, is so much worse of a realization than discovering my own dad is gay.

  • ttyybb@lemmy.world
    5·
    3 days ago

    Let’s say, for the sake of argument, being gay is a sin. Isn’t one of Jesus’ more well known lessons “let he who has never sinned throw the first stone” or something like that? Like his main thing is forgiving people and providing unconditional love. I’d say focusing on someone’s perceived sin is straight up non-Christian