It’s wild to me how different some people’s lives go. I suspect him and I would find each other’s lives equally unimaginable to see ourselves in.
And yeah I’ve always suspected a lot of the anti sex conservatives are on the ace spectrum or have some sexual trauma that manifests by suppression of desire, and completely lack the self awareness to not force their lack of desire onto others. Especially amongst asexual conservative men, who feel that not wanting women is emasculating and so they moralize and project. They make sex entirely about power or reproduction. It’s easier than getting themselves and their peers to decouple masculinity from heterosexuality.
It’s wild to me how different some people’s lives go. I suspect him and I would find each other’s lives equally unimaginable to see ourselves in.
And yeah I’ve always suspected a lot of the anti sex conservatives are on the ace spectrum or have some sexual trauma that manifests by suppression of desire, and completely lack the self awareness to not force their lack of desire onto others. Especially amongst asexual conservative men, who feel that not wanting women is emasculating and so they moralize and project. They make sex entirely about power or reproduction. It’s easier than getting themselves and their peers to decouple masculinity from heterosexuality.