Millennial about to turn 41.
I’m tired.
I’m not particularly fond of my fellow Americans anymore.
And I don’t have an ounce of patriotism left.
This country can go ahead and fuck itself. Which it appears to be doing pretty thoroughly. Dumbest fucking country in the history of the world if you take into account its wealth and influence compared to its quality of life and happiness index.
Weighing how much effort/money it would take to get Canadian citizenship and whether I have that kind of energy left in me.
Hey, you can always move to EU. Decent healthcare and stuff. It’s not perfect by any means, especially now but it’s so much better than the shit I see happening around. Makes me feel happy I was born here.
Man, I felt this so hard. Every word of it.
My only two cents beyond that, I fear Canada is too close.
I’m an ‘84 baby like you and recently I’ve been trying to remember when the last time I actually felt national pride.
I keep thinking maybe in the general upswell of national pride post 9/11 but that was probably mostly mob mentality and juvenile ignorance.
I am proud to be a Minnesotan though! When I’m abroad in the country the other Americans I meet seem generally decent but it just doesn’t feel like home if I’m outside of my state.
'81 baby here. My parents told me I’d jam along to Reagan’s “Born in the USA” ads in my underoos with a tiny plastic guitar. I think that’s the last time I felt national pride.
While being called lazy
I’m tired, boss
Millennials were also the generation that got to watch the surface web turn into an abandoned mall.
Good times.
Agreed.
But I still debate whether or not unrestricted internet access as a older kid/teen was a good thing or not haha. I’m sure we’ve all clicked links we regretted or went to those sites (rotten, or other shock sites). If we didn’t see all that shit growing up, would we be different? I’m not sure, but would be interesting to see some research on this (there may be some already, I haven’t looked).
Anyways, I recently found a great website for lemon-themed recipes. It’s www.lemonparty.org, check it out!
Ah yes, the site for learning more about trump’s upcoming plans. Good share.
Early 2000s internet was so good. I don’t know that it’s possible to go back there. You needed it to be a little bit wild west, you needed to say “Hey, if I click this website, am I going to regret it?” But folks were generally real (except apparently the girls I talked to in AIM chat rooms, but hey, I survived).
I keep telling myself: could be worse. Could also be better, but could be worse 🤷😬
Not sure who I’m trying to convince haha.
And it will be. Buckle up, comrade.
I had a discussion about this very thing with a Boomer, who proceeded to state they essentially went through more and including the shared recessions that myself as a millennial went through. Gas shortages of the 70s, wars, protests, etc, failing to grasp the point that was being made that their generation has had all the opportunities. They closed it out with, oh well maybe you should work harder and save more… yeah okay, hard to do that when I am overtaxed, inflation is on the rise, were likely entering Great Depression 2.0 thanks to Donvict, can’t afford a house when a mortgage would be cheaper than renting where I am at, but sure yea I will just work til I drop with little living in between, that’s the fix, its not the system, its me. Their “I got mine” attitude is astounding dismissive and part of the issue with their generation. Not all of them, some of them get it, but a large majority look at millenials and the younger generation as being lazy and that’s why there is such a massive homeless population problem. Not that wages have not grown proportionally with the cost of living, its just that we don’t work hard enough. I half joked that the greatest thing that could have happened was that COVID wiped a large swath of their generation off the map, it would save Social Security, free up housing, bring down the burden on healthcare, lower GOP voting base of angry bigot whites that hold on to the belief that America is only right if it is white, a large part of politicians that have made a career out of it would be removed ushering in a new more modern means of thinking into politics, and we might actually make some progress in this country. But nope, now we have angry Karens and racist Kyles who blame immigrants for all their problems rather than looking at the disparity between American generations.
I’m turning 42 this summer. I’m considered an “elder millennial”.
I’m 46 this year, which apparently makes me a Xennial. I had the tail end of public hysteria around the cold war to deal with too.
I’m 50 this year, which makes me a bit on the younger side of Gen X, and it weren’t no joy ride for us, either.
Boomers really robbed us all.
Elder Millennial sounds like a main quest giver.
Stop crying, geez.
(You’ll need those tears for your forties)I’m about to hit 50 and I’m still not done crying.
To be faaaair, i never said when it ends
sob I know sob
I feel like I live in interesting times, and understand why it’s used as an insult
GNU Terry Pratchett
In the 2020s alone we had COVID, Russian Nazis, and now Trump Nazis. Oh, and we went past 1.5 degrees.
Trump Nazis were 2015.
I’m tired, boss
Some of us millennials have been extraordinarily lucky.
I’m an old millennial but I avoided any personal impact from the 2001 recession by being in college, on financial aid.
Then the 2008 recession didn’t hit me very hard because I wasn’t a homeowner was a single childless dude who was flexible enough to just up and move wherever there was a job, across the country if necessary. I had a different job in a different state each year from 2008 through 2011, taking big raises with each move, then eventually back to school.
Then the 2020 recession didn’t hit me very hard because my wife and I both had counter-cyclical jobs (I tend to be busier when businesses are failing) and already owned a home, allowing us to bypass much of the inflation of the post-2020 period with a fixed rate mortgage we had refinanced to below 3% in 2021.
Now, the 2025 recession is probably gonna hit us hard. But I’ve basically escaped the last 3, so maybe I’m due.
Clearly you’re the catalyst in all of this… Fate has been targeting you and each time you’ve skated throu…“GUYS! I FOUND HIM! GET THE PITCHFORKS, TORCHES, AND GET THE SACRIFICIAL BONFIRE READY! WE CAN STILL FIX THIS!”
I’ll start warming up the volcano.
I feel the same way. Im 1 phase removed, but have been very lucky in dodging them too.
01 i was in high school, 08 i was in college with minimal expenses. I was paying $975 per quarter for room and board including 9 prepare meals a week and had enough school ships that my quarterly tuition was also under $1000, coupled with an engineering coop 1/2 the year, i came out financially ahead.
Covid i was a salaried essential worker who had to work 3 days a week but still got paid full salary. That made the lack of available child care bearable. I also had a house that i purchased with 3.25% mortgage.
This next one im feeling already. I moved for my wifes job this year, so that new mortgage rate sucks
yeah, seems like the earlier you were born the better off you are going to be in the long run right now…
No, if you look closer I actually managed to avoid the 2008 stuff by kinda being immature and “behind” by not being super set in my career path in my late 20’s. My smart friends from high school and college were decimated by the 2008 recession. When I went back to school in the early 2010’s, I basically got my law degree with a bunch of people who were younger than me, and got myself on the middle millennial track (despite being an old millennial).
My delayed career progression, as a slacker in my 20’s, saved my financial situation.
And if I were even older, 2001 might have permanently set me back, too. Lots of late Gen X never really recovered from that.
Just wait til you’re in your 40s…
Yeah. I want to run for Congress in 2026 on a platform of “I can’t trust you fucking fucks to not fuck up this fucking fucker any fucking more.”
Enough with the pretty words and speeches. Where’s the candidate who’s willing to just finally say what we’re all feeling: FUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!
