just take the L and move on, don’t embarrass yourself. people can see through that bullshit.
“hey I like you” “i’m really sorry but i don’t see you that way, I just want to be friends” “Im glad you said it first. I didn’t want to hurt your feelings”
???
Cut losses. If you find yourself hung up on her, go no contact until you’ve gotten over it. Too many other partners out there to be hung up on one that is having different feelings.
Stay frosty out there, kings and queens.
I was way into a girl and said, “I like you a lot and enjoy our talks, would you like to date me?” She said, “No, not really, but I’d like to still be friends.” And I said no thanks. Not because I was being a dick or anything, but I was too in to her to be friends. We drifted apart and both found someone else that was a better match for each of us.
Honestly, this is the best response. If you’re out dating to find a partner, it doesn’t make sense to stay friends with someone you were interested in, unless you have other interests.
Sometimes it be like that.
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Oh, lol. I don’t see it in Voyager, haha. It’s Emoji letters on the main website in place of my displayed username though.
Exactly. Then you can reconnect and be friends. By that time the feelings are done, but if not. Keep up that no contact!
Lol imagine talking to other people. Pathetic.
Some just haven’t met enough people it seems.
I did this after my first girlfriend broke up with me… in middle school. This is insecure adolescent boy behavior, anyone doing this kind of thing as an adult is maladjusted.
Tell her you have a boyfriend.
A girl I had started dating friend zoned me. I played it off cool saying “wanna just be casual?” (I didn’t wanna just be casual). Almost 4 years later and we’re still together :)
I think the moral of the story is you just have to trust the universe sometimes
Are you still friend zoned?
Nope! The friend zone only lasted like two weeks. I think we were meant to be together though. Life can just be a little overwhelming in the moment.
Lucky it took me six months to get the proper level of stockholm syndrome into my now wife.
We’ve only been married for 20 years. How can I be sure she really likes me?
Just to be clear, this is not at all what I was suggesting
What you didn’t tie your wife up in the basement for six months?
My fiancé has the patience of a saint. 8 years before the Stockholm Syndrome took me 😅
Honestly, I’ve used “hey, can we keep it to friends” a lot over the years. Partners I’ve more earnestly turned down have sat there and quizzed me nonstop as to why, some have turned violent, and then there are the quiet ones that just slander you continually. Emotional blackmail is the bare minimum I’ve expected over the years.
The amount of absolutely insane women out there is beyond frightening.
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