• DagwoodIII@piefed.socialBanned from community
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    Someone once said that raising the drinking age to 21 didn’t stop 18 year olds from getting booze, but it did stop a lot of 14 year olds from getting booze.

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      Which is an awful idea, gladly I never had any trouble getting alcohol at 12-14, and yeah, by 22 I had fucked around so much and partied so hard that was already retiring from getting drunk… isn’t it better to be irresponsible idiots when you indeed have no responsibilities, and give a good use to all those puberty hormones?

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        Alcohol can have an impact on the brain’s development, which stops at around 32 years old anyway. So it is less harmful (edit : for the brain development) the older you get. Also, the earlier someone starts drinking, the higher their chances are of developing an addiction.

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        Yes, because 14 year olds are so responsible otherwise.

        A drunk 14 year old on a bike is probably in more danger than a drunk 21 year old in a car.

        And don’t get me started on what trouble a drunk 14 year old girl can get into.

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          No way a drunk 14 year old on a bike is worse than a drunk anyone in a car.

          14 year olds should have more oversight from their parents though too. Better to learn from a parent or guardian than a frat bro or whatever.

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            You’re saying a different thing than they did. They said a drunk 14-year-old on a bike is in more danger than a 21-year-old in a car, which is correct

            Drunk pedestrians and cyclists statistically are in more danger than drivers, per mile, by a decent margin

            The problem is that doesn’t account for externalities, namely the risk of injuring others. A pedestrian or cyclist is unlikely to seriously injure someone else, whereas a driver would

            Edit: This is in the US, other countries will have different resukts due to more pedestrian-friendly infrastructure

          • DagwoodIII@piefed.socialBanned from community
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            Read what I wrote.

            More of a danger to themselves. Most people, even drunks, put on their seatbelts. That means if there’s an accident, even at high speed, the driver is protected by restraints and airbags.

            A kid on a bike doesn’t have that.

            If there’s a collision between a bike and a car, which vehicle do you want to be in?

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              I read what you wrote but was giving you the benefit of the doubt. Just to be clear, you’re saying that you’d prefer drunk drivers in cars versus bikes because you’re more concerned about the drunk driver’s safety than people they might run into/over?

              My speculation is that lowering the drinking age should result in fewer deaths overall for this very reason. I don’t want drunk drivers to die either but if I had to choose I’d prefer the drunk drivers to die over the person that they hit. I also reject your premise that crashing into something with your bike is more dangerous than crashing into something with a car, seatbelt or not. Speed is a pretty big factor and while drunk biking is surely dangerous it’s a lot less likely to crash at higher speeds.

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                You are hilarious!

                Speed is a pretty big factor and while drunk biking is surely dangerous it’s a lot less likely to crash at higher speeds.

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              I’m not as concerned about the safety of the drunk as I am about anyone else who may be near them while operating their chosen vehicle.

              With that in mind a bike is better.

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                Apples and oranges.

                I specifically said that a drunken 14 year old is more at risk of hurting themselves than a drunk adult wearing a safety belt. I never said that drunk driving was ‘safe’

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          A drunk 21 year old in a car could wipe out a family. A drunk 14 year old on a bike is probably at worst only going to kill themselves.

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            I wrote twice that the drunk kid was going to hurt themselves.

            How you got that I approve adults driving drunk is a mystery to me, one I prefer not to waste time solving.

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              You are very bad at communicating. You were correct in your initial comment, but really went off the rails and said many incorrect things afterwards

              Walking and biking is statistically more dangerous, mile per mile, for a drunk person than driving. The caveat is this excludes externalities such as injuring other people

              Had you said that, I think more people would have understood what you meant. As it stands, it sounds like you’re advocating for drunk driving

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              Let me help you out. It was this one:

              A drunk 14 year old on a bike is probably in more danger than a drunk 21 year old in a car.

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                That statement is technically correct

                Mile per mile, drunk walking and biking is more dangerous than drunk driving for the individual. Obviously why drunk driving is not okay is the danger to others, which is why his wording specifically only mentioned the danger to themselves

                Source

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        I would like to believe all the lessons I learned doing wreckless could have been learned elsehow, but also it tamed me out by the time I was 14. I could tell a lot of the kids around me at that age were acting out as a result of their newfound freedom, the kinda freedom and lack of supervision I had had for ten years at that point. I had my fill already and became a relatively calm and subdued teen. But only because I had learned my lessons through pain.

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        Are you me? Same trajectory, really.
        I did pick up hard drinking again after a several-year-hiatus, though. Then several years of that made me never touch hard liquor again.

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          I was a heavy drinker but I never went back, now just a beer or two very rarely on parties and only if I’m not driving

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      I really don’t know anybody from America who didn’t drink before 21. I’m still not a fan of alcohol outside of social events, didn’t go to parties often in the first place, and was generally a good little honors student who followed the rules. However, even I drank several times before it was legal.

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    Once had a nondescript volume (sips sips sips) of Jack Daniels from a flask before a night out. Getting that drunk just isn’t fun, especially when I’m moving about. Had a hangover so bad my cheeks were bruised from the swelling.

    I’m sticking to weed instead.

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      Getting drunk can be fun, but for me weed is usually way more enjoyable. Forst that can happen is, that you still wake up stoned.

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      Alcohol let’s us live a little while we shave years off our lives.

      It’s bad, but it’s also kind of an understandable reaction to what’s going on in the world today. The environment is being destroyed, the planet is becoming more and more uninhabitable for humans (because of the greed of human companies and countries). And the worst human behavior imaginable is being lauded as not just permissable, but recommended.

      A lot of us won’t accept that… So we just live in this mess hating it all.

      People shouldn’t drink excessively, but I get it.

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    Sure, we all say that “We’ll never drink again” within our 20s and then proceed to drink again either the next night or the next week. Vicious circle.