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LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zone to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 1 month ago

They are smashing

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They are smashing

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LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zone to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 1 month ago
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  • velma@sh.itjust.works
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    Before I came out: “What? Doesn’t everyone like boobs?”

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      I’m a cis man (and so therefore famously tuned into the preferences of those who aren’t) but, until I read this comment, I thought (almost) everyone did.

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        I have friends who are straight that can appreciate how clothing fits and such, but boobs don’t do anything sexually for them at all.

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          Sure sure, sexually, but they must admit boobs can be soft for head, and when you shake them they go blublublublublub, no? Surely they must! Maybe they just haven’t shaken them properly…

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            I like books well enough. But like you say, one of biggest reasons is soft for head. I mean, couch cuddling, anyone?

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          I can respect that, but I still find it surprising. Thanks for the answer!

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    I’d love to announce that I loved dick if it didnt mean certain near-complete social isolation and shunning along with a not insignificant chance of getting beaten 💀

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      I’m sorry you’re not in a safe time and place to come out yet. We’re here for ya in the meantime <3

    • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Hey sib, you are valid 🫂🏳️‍🌈

      Here’s to a world in where everyone can consensually love each other’s dick, cunt, or anything between and outside, and even handholding and personality…

      • rockerface🇺🇦@lemmy.cafe
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        Handholding? Tune down the horny, what if the kids see this?

      • cloudskater@piefed.blahaj.zone
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        I’m so used to seeing “cunt” as nothing but an insult that it feels weird to see it used in a sentence like this lmao

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      I am sorry this is the world we live in. You are great just as you are.

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      What’s worse is that I’m still not 100% certain if you’re saying you’re afraid of being shunned and beaten for being gay, or because women are supposed to pretend to be pure and innocent or face being shunned and potentially attacked by jealous partners.

    • Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Curiously, it’s often not even okay for het women to admit to liking dick in the current climate.

      Around the end of the COVID-19 epidemic (when we finally had vaccines and stuff), I remember a refreshing article in a women’s magazine that was a post-hoc discussion of an online confessional for women who dangerously liked dick: women who risked infection by consensually having sex with strangers during the lockdown.

      Anyway, Overton window be damned, it’s totally valid to like dick (or not).

    • magic_smoke@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      I want to feed those around you to a woodchipper.

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      Turettes Guy. Now there’s an internet treasure.

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  • Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I’m AMAB (presently enby) but since my forties have gotten along swimmingly in lesbian communities. And yes, at one point I wondered if boobs provide an endorphin high to wlw the way they do to het men (or at least to me.)

    It turns out in r/actuallesbians, I didn’t have to wait long to learn my answer. Hornyposting about boobs was a regular thing when I was there.

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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      hornyposting about boobs it’s a regular thing here on !lascivious_lesbians@piefed.blahaj.zone l

      • Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Subscribed!

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    I never had to come out, because my dumbass brother did it for me.

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      Reminds me of Easter 1983 when my brother found all my hidden eggs and basket for me cuz he thought he was helping. I was so disappointed. I wanted to do it myself!

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    She has a point

    • adarza@lemmy.ca
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      perhaps two, even.

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    Ikr?! Should be a Cloudflare bot detection: no-one dislikes boobs, only bots.

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      Alas, if only that were true

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      *raises paw* It me, I dislike boobs.

      (male, gay, wolf-in-all-but-body here. Even female wolves don’t have boobs, hah! They’re a weird human thing.)

      – Frost

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          Oh totally, wolves totally have nipples and stuff!

          It’s just not like, y’know, Two Big Honkers haha. Boobs as a sexual thing actively turn me off.

          – Frost

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    I think everyone loves boobs, especially when they’re not your own.

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      Boobs are universally loved.

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    Really? So when you, a girl, bring a girl home to meet your parents for the holidays, they should at least know it’s rude to refer to them as “your friend.”

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      💡Or they could refer to her by NAME

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        This isn’t helpful.

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    That’s why I just keep a pink handkerchief in my left back pocket

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