• Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Everyone is different, but a lot of studies show that late 20s / early 30s is a sweet spot for stability and not encountering big risks with conceiving.

    That said, having kids in your early 20’s, and early 30’s both sounds miserable to me.

    • i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 days ago

      I had mine in my early 20s. Sucked. Laying the groundwork for my own stability was a lot harder than it should have been, but I got it done anyway with a combination of a mountain of determination, an incredible amount of work, natural talent and smarts, and so much luck.

      But the child will be an adult by the time I am 40, so I got that going for me.