• Pistcow@lemmy.world
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    20 days ago

    Goth girl i worked with at Tacobell in college, I guess, was flirting with me often? She gave me this burned CD, and her music was weird, so I just threw it in my binder. Years later, I finally listened to it, and it was all songs about having sex.

    I think she might have been interested in me?

  • XM34@feddit.org
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    20 days ago

    Meh, had this too often. The moment I make a move they usually withdraw. Nowadays I let people know that if they’re interested, hints won’t cut it. Either ask me out or stop that shit. I’ve had enough rejections to the point where I’d rather stay single than go through this hell again. ✌️

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    20 days ago

    I have realized one day that years ago when she invited me in for a beer after a night out when I went to pickup my sunglasses that I left with her, it probably wasn’t about the beer, though to be fair to me, I thought she was still seeing this guy I knew so I basically had that part of my brain turned off around her.

    • im_me_but_better@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      19 days ago

      All the possible signals. Really. I’ll give you two of my own experience (or inexperience)

      • Teenagers in a school trip. She tells me, do you want to come with me, I forgot my key in the room. “Sure” I say. I proceed to walk with her and wait for her to go to her room while I held the elevator.

      • Me in a quite alternative bar. She “why don’t you stay longer, I can take you home after”. Me “I have early class tomorrow”.

      Both were drop dead gorgeous (the first one was fairly wealthy)

      Those are just two examples. My life is full of them. Apparently I’m more attractive than smart.

      Of course, there have been some super direct where I clued in but it was impossible not to.