Hey now, I am not AI. I am a real human.
Fat Tony
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Perhaps we have different ideas on what flirting is
I think we do. I see flirting as banter to make sexual/romantic intentions known.
but to me, its the things you do to build a connection (talking, joking, hanging out, etc).
How is that different from making friends though? I mean that’s exactly what I do with friends and basically anyone.
Fat Tony@lemm.eeOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do you gently tell someone you only want to keep seeing them if it's on a dating level?
1·6 months agoI don’t think it’s wise to treat people you’re romantically interested the exact same you would any other person. That’s how I got into this mess, to be honest. I actually feel like if I were more upfront about it I now wouldn’t have made this post here.
stop treating women differently from men
True and I never have otherwise. But you should absolutely treat people you like differently, at least in the way of what you want with them.
Fat Tony@lemm.eeOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do you gently tell someone you only want to keep seeing them if it's on a dating level?
2·6 months agoWhere am I supposed to get a hamster wheel??
Also, I feel like at that last stage we may as well just remain friends.
Fat Tony@lemm.eeOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do you gently tell someone you only want to keep seeing them if it's on a dating level?
1·6 months ago“that’s all fine but I genuinely begin to develop feelings for her” and “I just don’t really care all that much for a friendship”.
Okay I may have not worded it very well there. What I mean is that I don’t want to be in this “friendzone” any more. I really don’t and I don’t see myself being happy remaining as such.
Fat Tony@lemm.eeOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do you gently tell someone you only want to keep seeing them if it's on a dating level?
4·6 months agoIt’s nothing about her not being good enough. It’s my own feelings that are in the way.
Fat Tony@lemm.eeOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do you gently tell someone you only want to keep seeing them if it's on a dating level?
1·6 months agoI never said I didn’t like her. It’s quite the opposite.
The template image is in the wrong order! Banned.
Fat Tony@lemm.eeOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Are your parents "supposed" to be your role models?
7·8 months agoWell, shit.
Fat Tony@lemm.eeto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•I was today years old when I found out Glomming on some Glizzys means eating some hot dogs with enthusiasm.
2·8 months agoA real glizzy gladiator!
I mean, what sort of a psychopath do you have to be to give a single fuck about working in manufacturing?


It’s only fun if it’s appreciated by the other party, though.