• Doll_Tow_Jet-ski@fedia.io
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    22 days ago

    That ‘daddy’ thing in sex will always freak me out. If a woman called me daddy during sex that would be the end of it

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      22 days ago

      I’m good with it as long as it doesn’t leave the bedroom or turn towards something really wrong. Otherwise, I respect the kink.

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        22 days ago

        Ye I didn’t want to kink shame anyone. I also respect the kink, but it would be a deal breaker for me. That and inflicting pain. I don’t judge those who are into those things, but they’re not for me.

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        20 days ago

        “Daddy, could you pass the salt?”

        My hand touches the salt shaker, so does her father’s.

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      22 days ago

      The daddy thing as in the pornos is completely unrealistic too

      As someone who actually has a daddy kink, I’ve never seen anyone who has a one night stand and instantly sees their partner as their daddy

      I mean, I’m an extreme case, but I don’t think you can just see someone as your daddy without bonding with him first. Like, I’ve spend like a year or 2 with him and gone through a lot of stuff until I even started thinking of calling him daddy, but now its pretty normal for us, after like 4 years, and im happily calling him Papi or Papa, and he’s calling me „kleine” or Mika, but thats really an edgecase

      Only other scene where I’ve seen someone become someone’s daddy instantly was with abdl rp stuff, but that’s non sexual

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      22 days ago

      Yeah, and dunno if it’s just because I have two kids now. I assume it would’ve struck me as odd before, but I guess I didn’t think of it back in the before times.

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        22 days ago

        Ye now that I am a father of a girl, the thought itself disgusts me. I did find it weird before but now it blows my mind

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          22 days ago

          I have no kids and have always found it disturbing and off-putting. It’s not a common thing in my country and language though, but I was with an American girl several years ago who said it and my member deflated like someone pulled the plug. No thanks.

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      22 days ago

      It definitely weirds me out too and I at one point definitely had this opinion. But then I was with a woman once who I was very, very attracted to; Possibly more than anyone else I’ve been with. (Not that that’s a bunch of people) She started calling me daddy repeatedly while we were getting into, and despite me being a little weirded out by it I, uh, didn’t stop.

      Horny is a hell of a thing.