• Cybersec@piefed.social
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    11 days ago

    Yeah but on the first dates you gotta try to impress a little right, don’t want to come off as too poor or cheap (depending on circumstances, 2 students in exact same situation is different than older working adults, for example)

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      11 days ago

      If the girl is impressed by how much you can spend on food is it really worth impressing her at all?

    • Micromot@piefed.social
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      11 days ago

      This feels like a capitalistic idea to convince people thay they need to spend money to find a partner or people to be with. Dating can have many forms and you can get to know people in many different places. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to talk to people in hobby groups or go take a walk/drink a coffee with someone

    • Malyca@lemmy.zip
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      10 days ago

      Nah, coffee date. No pressure, easy to hear each other, easy to split bill and easy to leave if it’s not going well.