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minus-squaregrrgyle@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·1 month agoYou gotta switch their gears from defense ive/debate mode before they’ll even consider what you have to say. Even then you won’t see the positive change in the moment. It’ll come 2 years later while they’re drying their hair and it all clicks
minus-squareDoc_Crankenstein@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 month agoAs an autistic individual who already has enough trouble with social interaction, asking me to dance around the fragile emotional state of someone being willfully ignorant might as well be the same as asking me to sprout wings and fly.
minus-squaregrrgyle@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agoYeah if it’s not in your skill set no shame in leaving this labour to someone more suited to it
You gotta switch their gears from defense ive/debate mode before they’ll even consider what you have to say.
Even then you won’t see the positive change in the moment. It’ll come 2 years later while they’re drying their hair and it all clicks
As an autistic individual who already has enough trouble with social interaction, asking me to dance around the fragile emotional state of someone being willfully ignorant might as well be the same as asking me to sprout wings and fly.
Yeah if it’s not in your skill set no shame in leaving this labour to someone more suited to it