• yermaw@sh.itjust.works
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    4 months ago

    A lot of the time we do know, but we’re terrified of getting it wrong and getting rejected and maybe worse.

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      4 months ago

      after being rejected 100 times in a row for “ew gross i don’t associate disabled people” when after a couple dates i let them see me take a blood pressure pill (hadn’t even let them see any of my massive collection of scars except my arm and face, which i can’t exactly hide without michael jacksoning) you kind of just start making fairly accurate assumptions about the women in your society