I’m an adult male who works downtown near a pretty nice park. Now that the weather is getting better, I’d like to get outside at lunch and work on juggling.

I’ve never done it because I don’t want to the the weirdo that’s juggling in the middle of the day, but I don’t really have any other time when I can practice in an open space.

Would it be weird if you were in a park and a grown up man was there juggling?

Edit: Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement. It probably says a lot about what I think about people who choose to mind their own business while engaging in things they enjoy in their spare time. I’ve learned a lot here. There also doesn’t seem to be a juggling/flow arts Lemmy community so maybe that’s something we can do.

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    When you’re 20, you care what everyone thinks about you

    When you’re 40, you don’t give a shit what anyone thinks about you.

    When you’re 60, you’ll realize no one was thinking about you the whole time. It will be more empowering than depressing.

    Skip the worry. Do you. It’s public space and hurts no one.

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      I love this comment just for the fact you point out that no one really thinks about you and even if they do, their opinion isn’t relevant.

      I myself am 50 and I gave up many years ago even considering what other people think about me, as long as I behave in an ethical and kind way.

      This to say, I cannot imagine the daily stress of today’s generation, where every moment is spent disingenuously performing for others on SM and trying to get them to notice you

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        I’m approaching 40 And it was hard enough with cable internet being all the rage.

        Now that kind of connectivity is 24/7 and on personal pocket sized devices.

        I don’t envy today’s youth.

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    Absolutely not weird, and any normal adult would just walk by and think hey cool.

    Unpopular opinion time, the only people, and I mean literally, the only people that are even suggesting it’s weird or thinking other people think it’s weird, are the sweatys that have never actually been to a park, or understand the dynamics of park people.

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    I mean, if you take “weird” to mean “abnormal”, then yes, it would be very weird. You will likely be the only person juggling in the park. But weird doesn’t mean bad - just different.

    On the other hand, your coworkers probably spend their lunch breaks eating McDonalds and scrolling IG in their cars. Juggling in the park sounds like a way better use of your time.

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    Ive seen this a lot and i don’t think it is weird. One thind I’ll mention is people are probably going to stop and watch you, ask questions, maybe even ask if they can try. If that won’t bother you while practicing then I’d say go for it and get out there juggling. You could probably leave a hat or something on the ground and people will toss you a couple of coins just for letting them watch.

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    On posts like these, the question to ask yourself is “if I saw a video on the Internet of someone being a dick to a person doing this thing, would they look like an asshole?” If the answer is yes, then it’s fine to do.

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    As a professional juggler I say go for it! That’s where I practise and never had any bad experiences in public parks.

    True story: I used to worry so much about what people thought. One day I did an experiment, dyed my hair lime green and went around to the shops, library etc. Nobody batted an eyelid and I realised it was just me.

    Nowadays I do “weird” things in public every weekend, and people usually pay in advance!

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    Weird as in outside of the norm? Sure, just a bit. Weird as in dangerous or creepy? Not in the slightest. If I were out for a walk and saw someone juggling at the park, that would make me happy. I wish I felt as comfortable to do things outside.

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      On second thought, do wear any/all of those and be sure to wax your mustache. Leave a hat or box for tips, I’ll throw some in.

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    Most people are going to think it’s cool, it’s not any more weird than playing the guitar on the street or playing on a public piano.

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    I live near a big public park and it would be strange if there wasn’t someone juggling there on a sunny day.

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    There was one guy in my classes during undergrad who rode a unicycle while playing guitar. He did this everywhere he went. Cool guy. Very level headed and down to earth, just quirky.

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      i can assure you, if I could play the guitar while riding a unicycle, you’d never see me do anything else, ever again. and i do know how to ride one.

      Thats an insane level of skill, guy’s got the right to brag.