I’m guessing you are doing social interaction wrong.

You are supposed to talk about them, matters they bring up or have interest in. Social interaction is mostly a circlejeck where people talk about themselves and matters of their interests by proxy, without talking about themselves or matters of their interests.

Transfer of information has nothing to do with it.

That’s just shitty people. Find people who you vibe with, and then interact with them.

Good ol’ ASD.