The context makes it worse, but I’m just trying to gauge how fucked up normal people would find this, because being raised by this kind of person messed with my calibration.

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    “Wanking wasn’t enough? You’ve no hands?!” was my first thought, bringing back some Reddit core memories, lol.

    Ofc it’s weird AF. Promoting hedonism and oversexualization is weird and immoral in general, but your own mom doing that to you sounds traumatic too… Sorry, OP. This is the kind of stuff you either take to the grave or share only when you find an extremely understanding lady. :/

    And purely out of curiosity, where are you from?

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      Everyone knows masturbation is hedonistic and immoral!

      And purely out of curiosity, what religion does your username imply?

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        Their head would explode if they saw my drawer of 1-2k USD of bad dragon dildos, vibrators, clit suckers, masturbators, plugs, beads, and more…

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          😱 Is this just for fun or are you a professional? 2k on sex toys… Maybe I’m just too poor to get it but that’s a bit too much for ANY kind of toy collection, lol.

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            That’s just for myself and my partner hahaha. We don’t do any sort of work or share or anything. We just like to try new things.

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        I didn’t say masturbation, in the traditional sense, was something so outrageous and immoral (“wanking wasn’t enough?!”, as I said, but you need to fight windmills to make any sort of valid point here, ofc). I understand the urges of the flesh because I too am a person (a healthily horny man at that!), but fleshlights are definitely too much. It’s advanced gooning. Your mom promoting it and buying you sex toys is weird AF and concerning (what’s next, she’s gonna pay for your OF subscriptions? Pay for your first hooker threesome? 🤔), and the fact I even have to spell it out is, well, I’d like to say surprising and disappointing but it isn’t, not really. I know who I’m talking to here, after all.

        And Muslim non-sectarian!