I use homeassistant, it even keepa tabs on my homelab, etc. Only way to do smart home right is with ZigBee,zwave and esphome. None of these devices need internet access. Everything I have on my smart home is local and on its separate vlan. Again this isn’t for everybody because it does take a lot of time if you don’t know what your doing. Home assistant has come a VERY LONG way though and is very much user friendly now.

100% this. Their update stability has gotten even worse, I didn’t think that was possible.

It was relatively easy once I figured out that netbird doesn’t support a wildcard certificate. They just released and update that fixed that and they now support subdomains. I also do still have headscale as a backup if I need it.

Jenny should do a grammar check for your and you’re