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Cake day: July 8th, 2023

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  • Remember folks: the reason we’re so successful as humans throughout the past 100,000 years is because of empathy. We take care of each other, and that makes us strong. The fascist ‘everyone for themself’ mentality will doom us. Don’t let sociopaths spread their mental cancer.

    Come on, people now, smile on your brother.






  • I parented a teen boy. Sometimes, no matter what you do and no matter how close you were before puberty, a switch flips outside your control and they won’t talk to you anymore. We were a typical family, no abuse, no fighting, nobody on drugs, both parents with 9-5 office jobs, very engaged with school and etc.

    Thankfully, after riding it out (getting him therapy, giving space, respect, and support), he came out the other side fine. But there were a few harrowing years during that phase.

    I went through a similar phase in my teens. If AI was there to feed my issues, I might not have survived it. Teenage hormones are a helluva drug.



  • The hospital did this with my son, too.

    I’d already told them before he was born we weren’t having him circumcised, but a nurse showed up the morning after to take him, and I’m glad I was awake, because they weren’t going to ask me. I groggily asked ‘where are you taking him?’ as she was walking away (I figured it was for blood work), and she said, ‘oh, you’re up? For his circumcision’. ‘No, no, we’re not doing that.’ She put him back in the crib.

    They just assumed, and then it showed up on my bill. Took months to get the charge removed.

    I’m not religious, and we don’t need to routinely mutilate baby penises, thanks.