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  • I shouldn’t engage but I can’t resist. The difference is thats what mods are for. They ban problematic users and there’s modlogs for transparency. There are power-tripping mods that are trigger happy with the ban, but it is up to them to do that.

    Tesseract is an app which claims to access the fediverse. It doesn’t tell you what’s being censored or even that things are being censored. It presents them as technical issues. It’s not an apples to apples comparison.










  • JillyB@beehaw.orgto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    2 months ago

    Thanks for the thorough perspective! The specific space I was thinking of was a gay bar/gay club. There have been a few times when I’ve partied with a group that included a bunch of gay men. Then that group wanted to continue the night at a gay bar and invited me. Even with an invitation, it would feel like invading. I had no idea there was an ally flag. I’ll look into repping that.

    Thanks for all the tips.


  • JillyB@beehaw.orgto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    2 months ago

    Queer people: I’m a cis straight man. Would it be ok for me to show some rainbow iconography to show support? I try not to put myself in gay spaces since that’s not for me. Idk if it would come across as like…stolen gay valor or something.

    Side question: is it ok for me to refer to lgbtq+ people as queer? The acronym feels clunky but I’m not sure if this is a “we can say it but not you” situation.

    I understand that the answers may not have broad agreement one way or another but I wanted to do at least a little bit of a temperature check.










  • Much like every culture war issue the right grabs onto: there’s no logical basis for it. It became an in-group thing to signal to others that you’re “one of the good ones”. Sane people pointed out how bad it was which only made ivermectin more entrenched as THE healthy thing like crystals, red light therapy, essential oils, basically anything not backed up by a healthcare expert.