• kamenLady.@lemmy.world
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          Fuck. When i was born, i had to spend some time in an incubator. My mom fell in a coma and woke up 1 month later. We were in the hospital the whole time.

          Tons of exams for my mom …

          This would have ruined my parents, if i would have been born in the USA, which almost happened.

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          And don’t forget the cost of caring for a kid is somewhere in the realm of $10k over the first year.

          P.S. Always request an itemized bill from hospitals. Magically the amount owed will go down.

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        It’s all in what insurance, and the hospital ital costs are only the beginning

        About 18 years ago we were pretty well covered: deductible wasn’t bad. But other people talked about first year supplies. You also have multiple doctor visits so even if it’s just deductible it starts adding up. Then we had an allergy thing where special food was $1,400/month - luckily we only had to pay a few months while arguing with insurance

        Then we arrive at today. All those years of kid expenses made it tough to save, but now we have college expenses and the current administration is cutting financial aid

        We need so much more than $5k to raise kids