• slappypantsgo@lemm.ee
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      5 days ago

      And it’s ultimately insulting to men too, like the idea of being excited to share personal news is somehow anathema to the male experience.

      • tauren@lemm.ee
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        I don’t know how serious one has to take themselves to find this “ultimately insulting”. It’s a silly meme and it’s funny because most men can relate to it.

      • exasperation@lemm.ee
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        Low maintenance friendships are the best ships 🛳️

        I’m no psychoanalyst but it sounds like someone is insecure in their ability to love and be loved and would prefer to guarantee a balanced reciprocity of low effort on both sides.