minus-squareEtnaAtsume@lemmy.worldtoNo Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this?linkfedilinkarrow-up7·edit-211 days agoMy paternal grandma died last year. And my dad remarried in 2017. Not really enough time for his new wife to establish much rapport. Dad had always been a Mama’s boy and lived most all of his life clinging to his mom’s skirts anyway. Yet when grandma died it was the new wife who casually sent me a picture taken with her phone of my grandma’s corpse in the hospital bed. Horrifying, and very inappropriate. All of this is to say that I can relate to your situation and no, you aren’t overreacting. linkfedilink
My paternal grandma died last year. And my dad remarried in 2017.
Not really enough time for his new wife to establish much rapport.
Dad had always been a Mama’s boy and lived most all of his life clinging to his mom’s skirts anyway.
Yet when grandma died it was the new wife who casually sent me a picture taken with her phone of my grandma’s corpse in the hospital bed.
Horrifying, and very inappropriate. All of this is to say that I can relate to your situation and no, you aren’t overreacting.