Your one skill as a child is being “the easy one”, meaning you don’t ask for anything, unlike your more needy younger sibling. So you just keep not asking for things and your needs go unmet. And anytime a child needs to show flexibility, it’s you because you’re the older one. No, you don’t get to blow out the candles on your birthday cake alone because your brother wants to, it’d be nice if you let him help because you’re the older one. By the time you’re 10 you realize you’ll always be the older one. It sucks.
tippy toes to avoid being loud even when alone at home ~
I feel like this is where ASD and CPTSD meet
dunno if them letters got a thing to do with it. being silent is just a nice thing I believe—
buuuuut iguess it can have a thing to do with it… fair-
its like, no one can percieve you and you cant ask anything or else you will Die instantly
Your one skill as a child is being “the easy one”, meaning you don’t ask for anything, unlike your more needy younger sibling. So you just keep not asking for things and your needs go unmet. And anytime a child needs to show flexibility, it’s you because you’re the older one. No, you don’t get to blow out the candles on your birthday cake alone because your brother wants to, it’d be nice if you let him help because you’re the older one. By the time you’re 10 you realize you’ll always be the older one. It sucks.
thanks for reading my entire life thx so much :3
yeye kinda mhm yes
It’s a time honored combination, especially among the older set.
Unfortunately.